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Rebirth and Karma

Q: Some people do not feel comfortable with the idea of reincarnation.They believe that they can progress in the spirit world without reincarnating and they also feel that their family would not be there to see them if they'd reincarnated back to earth before they themselves passed to the spirit world.

Hai: Whether people feel comfortable or not is neither here or there. Reincarnation exists whether we like it or not. There is a reality which exists. A reality which exists of itself. A oneness to attune to which we must accommodate ourselves to. If the family have rebirthed, then there was a need to. Therefore this need had to be met and if we truly love those we love, we must accept what is best in their interests, what best suits their needs. Not hang on to circumstances. We must have a deep enough, broad enough, love, to let go also when the time calls for it.

Q: Other spirit communicators have said that there is no need to reincarnate and that they will not reincarnate ever.

Hai: It is true that we can learn whilst in the spirit lands and progress, but there are some lessons which are best learnt in an earth life,and can only be learnt in an earth life. Therefore it is sometimes the case of a need to be born on the earth plane, to meet our needs most appropriately. It is not solely on a matter of our will. There is karma to consider.

Q: When someone goes to spirit what is the most important factor governing whether that person reincarnates again? Is it the spirit's wish to reincarnate or is it something external to the spirit, that says you have to reincarnate again in order to progress? Which is the most important factor?

Hai: This depends on many things. There are many reasons why people may reincarnate as you put it. You speak of reincarnation on earth do you?

Q: Yes

Hai: There are a variety of reasons which will affect the result of. Sometimes, karma dictates that the person should rebirth on the earth plane. Sometimes they build up karma to the point that their desire takes them back quite quickly to the earth plane. But for many this is not the case. For many they will spend some time in the spirit realms. And the length of time by your calculation will vary enormously. Some will spend time in the spirit lands for many aeons. Others will return to earth out of choice. Out of choice to undergo new experiences and to learn and grow from those experiences. Others may progress through the spirit realms as far as they are able. But I have said before, I think, that there are experiences which can be gained from the earthly plane which cannot be gained in the spiritual lands. And therefore the earth plane has its own particular value. Its own particular contribution to make to our growth and progress. But there is no blueprint.

Q: Do people sometimes have to go back whether they like it or not, as it were?

Hai: This will depend upon the karma which they have built up. It depends upon the vibration they themselves have built up, established within themselves. Some are drawn back to the earth plane not so much for reasons of growth but because they are attached to the earth plane. And there is an essential bond, tie, between themselves and the earthly conditions. So they are drawn back in, if you like, to an earthly life. Some will go on and live on the spirit planes and later perhaps choose to come back for a number of reasons. They may come back because they know that the experiences they will undergo, which they can have some choice over as well usually, will help their growth and progression. It is also possible that some spirits may choose to come back because other spirits with whom they have a bond have decided to come back and they feel the bond and the need to come back with their spirit friends. To undergo earthly life together in some form or other.

Q: What would be a deep spirit bond between a spirit and his friends?

Hai: The bonds which you establish endure. They endure over time and space. They endure beyond the illusion of death. These bonds continue and in part it is part of the karma to which I referred. So because these bonds exist, and they are bonds of love usually, to which I refer then sometimes these bonds of love require us drive us to be reborn at the same time period as our friends. But you should not the two attached to roles here. By this I mean the roles which you occupy while you are on the earth plane; of mother, father, son ,daughter, husband, wife and so on. The bond of love that is within all these roles is deeper than the roles themselves. And it is the love to which I refer and not the bond of the role. So love endures. The bond of love endures. Roles may change. And you may have had experience of being a wife or a husband to someone in a previous lifetime but you may choose perhaps to be reborn in a different relationship with them. At relationship perhaps of a friend, a daughter, or a son and so on. But the bond of love runs through all these roles. It's what is important. It's what is ultimately valuable.

Q: Does it tend to be an upwards progression or can people go downwards as well?

Hai: Generally progression is onwards but it is possible that we may also regress because as always it depends upon how we use our experiences, how we respond to our experiences. Intent is all. Motive is all. When it comes to this matter it is what is important. If we for instance go to the spirit realms. We spend some time there. And then we return to an earth life. Then depending upon how they responded to the earthly life depending upon their intent and to their motives when they were in the physical body it is possible that they could create a different karma for themselves and they therefore regress. But even with regression they can be growth at the end of the day. We learn and we grow.