Q: If we choose our next lives for our better growth and so the same with our children, being a group choice, how can we have free will? If the parent(s) err from their path, wouldn't that alter the child's chart and its ability to continue with its life choice, thinking its life would be with the parents. Or would they know before hand of the event? If both parents and children have formerly charted these together it would seem to me to be predestined, but then where does the free will come in? There are no mistakes and no rights or wrongs? I can't get this together and cannot answer another's question concerning this.
Hai: This person is becoming lost in a maze of her own thoughts. It is not so difficult. The reality is that we may pick the general pattern of our lives, but as we have said before, we can change that once we are living upon the earth plane. Therefore there is a synchronicity also between the paths of parents and children; there is no contradiction in this. Parents choose the pattern of their life to a greater or lesser extent. Children choose the pattern of their life to a greater or lesser extent. And within these patterns there is much freedom, movement, and much freedom of choice. Therefore, there is no predestination in the sense of which the person speaks and indeed there is room for right and wrong choices within the pattern.