Tranquil Spirit, Northwich, Cheshire, UK - Spirit Communications: Non-Attachment

Spirit Communications:

Non-Attachment

Non-Attachment and Inner Happiness

Hai: You must wait for your compass needle to settle. It is all over the place at the moment so therefore you must wait for it to settle. The needle will settle, it will stabilise over a short time but you must let it stabilise then you can get the true direction which you seek, the true way forward for your life. You must not agitate your mind, must not trouble your mind and stir it up. Allow it to settle.

Another image I can give you is of the muddy water in the pond. You muddy the bottom of the pond, you get muddy water which you cannot see through. But if you allow this to steady itself all the silt will fall back to the bottom of the pond again and it will become clear.

Q: How do you do that?

Hai: By not stirring it up. Just allow it to settle itself; must be free, must be non-attached to results, to events. This is true non-attachment. To be non-attached to results, to events.

Q: How do you become non-attached to events?

Hai: By stilling the mind. When you see, then you will realise that all these changeable events are nothing but the froth on the ocean, froth on the sea. You are complete onto your self. This is what you must realise. It is difficult when you are young, but you will realise in time. You are complete unto yourself and it is only when you are recognising this completeness unto your self that you may truly enjoy your relationship with others.

Q: Do you mean that you to be happy within yourself, Hai?

Hai: Yes, do not look for happiness outside yourself. You have fulfilment in some of the things you do, yes, which you seek for yourself? You should try to find greater fulfilment in this, greater happiness in this, greater completeness in this. Then you will find that relationship will come of itself without your seeking.